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No girls this book club

Postby Akil Todd Harvey » Sat Nov 19, 2005 2:58 pm ... 0505.story

When I was studying for a master's degree in education I came across a required reading that indicated that women (girls) do less well in math & science than men (boys) and similarly, boys do less well in reading/communication tasks than girls.

Interestingly, where the girls did less well (math & science), there was a hue and a cry to change whatever existed within schools that led to this deficit for girls. Where the deficit existed for boys (reading & writing), there was not even concern or interest in doing anything to improve the scores for boys.

Thus, inequality it seems is real bad when it is against women, but surely tolerable (if not to be encouraged) when it is against men.

Thus, more and more women are becoming more and more successful in higher education (a good thing) to the extent that women outnumber men in higher education throughout the world (not such a good thing).

I was under the mistaken impression that feminism was about equality. Just equality for women and not for men..........

In my mind, the equailty that most feminists seek is:

1) men's responsibilities ===>>>(must equal) women's rights

2) women's responsibilities = o

3) men's right's = 0

as long as the above three rules apply, feminists (the men feminists included) will be reasonably happy.........

Some of us men are waking up to the fact that this may not seem especially fair (and yes I am a little late to the party, but being raised in an feminist echo chamber didnt help much)....

An after-school group uses boy-friendly works such as the 'Cirque Du Freak' series to boost reading among males.

By Tara Bahrampour, Washington Post

WASHINGTON — The first book in the "Cirque Du Freak" series starts in a toilet and ends in a graveyard. If you're a pre-adolescent boy, that's great stuff.

It's so great that 60 or so boys could hardly contain their glee when the author of the series was introduced at a special lunch recently at Hammond Middle School in Alexandria, Va.

The lunch was for members of Club BILI (Boys in Literacy Initiative), an all-male, after-school book club at Hammond that began three years ago to help close the literacy achievement gap between boys and girls. The club focuses on books that appeal specifically to boys and includes read-aloud sessions, visits to elementary schools to promote reading, and trips to see movies based on the books they read.

On average, boys score seven to 11 points lower than girls on standardized reading comprehension tests. The discrepancy isn't limited to the United States — a study by the University of York in Britain found it exists in 22 countries. Scientists say boys are born with biological differences that make them read later than girls, though they eventually catch up. Boys also have a harder time sitting still for long periods, studies show.

Prevailing attitudes toward reading don't help.

"Society has created an aura about reading that it's a girl thing and it doesn't fit into adolescents' persona," said Jodie Peters, a reading peer coach at the school who co-founded Club BILI after coming upon a book about the gap called "Reading Don't Fix No Chevys." "We want to fight that."

Often, traditional classroom literature doesn't intrigue boys, Peters said. The club, funded by a grant from AOL and private donations, focuses on books that fire the imaginations of middle-school boys. That means fewer plucky female protagonists and more potty humor and monsters.

Picking up the microphone at Hammond, Darren Shan, 33, author of the "Cirque Du Freak" books, knew what buttons to push. His upcoming series about demons, "Demonata," starts with a bloody climax. "Chapter Two," he told the boys, "is probably the most gruesome thing I've ever heard of."

Listening to the Irish author, who looked rather boyish himself, club members were wide-eyed. They interjected occasional one-word comments — "Yesss!" when Shan promised there would be 12 books in the "Cirque Du Freak" vampire adventure series, and "Daaang!" when he said the last one wouldn't be out in the United States until the end of next year.

It's not that boys don't read, club co-founder Rob Murphy said. "They're reading tons of stuff — comics, video game manuals." But too often, the teacher said, "the boys really hated the books that we were making them read in classrooms. There were a lot of female protagonists, and it was hard for them to make the connection with some of the plot lines."

Boy-friendly literature has included the Lemony Snicket "Series of Unfortunate Events" books and Sports Illustrated. "It validates what they feel comfortable reading," Murphy said. "That was the point of it."

Several boys said they had learned about the club through word of mouth; some said they had persuaded their friends to join.

"Write that I'm the biggest Darren Shan fan," said Mike Walker, 12, who discovered "Cirque Du Freak" in the library. "I picked it up and I couldn't stop reading."

"It's, like, blood and gore and snakes and spiders," Chris Platt, 12, explained. "When I sit down to read I'm only supposed to read for 30 minutes, but I sit down at home [with 'Cirque Du Freak'] and then when I look at the clock it's been two hours."

In a question-and-answer session with Shan, some technical questions about vampires came up, such as what a vampire-general is. (Answer: someone with command over ordinary vampires but lower in the hierarchy than a vampire-prince.)

Some students wanted to know whether Shan was in fact the series' main character, who is also named Darren Shan. "Are you really a vampire?" one boy asked. After a weighty pause, Shan said no.

Brandon White, 12, asked a couple of questions about the books. Then he asked one thing more.

"Can I have a hug?" he said. "I love you."

Shan gave him a bear hug, then, in his best tough-guy voice, growled, "Get outta here."
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Postby Gene DeMambro » Sat Nov 19, 2005 4:17 pm

Do we have an unbiased breakdown in the number of male tenured professors vs. the number of female tenured professors in collges and universities in the US and the world? What about department chairs? University presidencies/chancellorships?

Got a problem with women getting an equal shake?

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