Andrew,
you, 2, have valid concerns.....you have probably read some of the alarmist literature that comes from the EXTREMIST feminists that are masquerading as activists........
here is an example of the claptrap that comes to my email box disguised as fair and balanced reporting......
Quote:
LIFETIME TV Presents: Searching For Angela Shelton
Airing Saturday, April 22 at 11 pm et/pt
Lifetime Television will team up with filmmaker Angela Shelton for a special airing of an exclusive version of "Searching for Angela Shelton," as the centerpiece of Lifetime's ongoing Emmy Award–winning public advocacy campaign, Our Lifetime Commitment: Stop Violence Against Women, now in its fifth year.
The recipient of more than 12 awards, the film follows Angela Shelton as she travels across the United States to meet other women who share her name. She discovers that 70% of the other Angela Sheltons have been victims of rape, childhood sexual assault and/or domestic violence. The surprising journey leads Shelton to confront her own history of abuse and learn about forgiveness, faith and the power of the human spirit. The multi-award-winning documentary has started a grassroots movement of healing for survivors of abuse of all genders.
here we have an attempt to make it look like all NEARLY ALL women are victims and NEARLY ALL men are perpetrators.........and since the program is not about violence in general, but violence against women (IMPLICATION: men are to blame for either doing the deed or for doing nothing).......
I have bad news for you andrew........feminism cannot survive an open debate (peer reviewed articles or not).....why do you think they are afraid to debate me in the women's forum? cuz their proof is mental oatmeal.....and they are about as strong in their arguments as a house of cards in a hurricane......and they require men like you to come and debate me since their arguments are so full of holes that it would make a useful strainer and nothing else........
Quote:
You have some valid concerns, but looking into the facts as objectively as possible could help. Be careful not to search through random sources for the means of supporting your current position.
back at ya babe....feel free to have the feminists vitriole squad look at the evidence objectively, if they can.....LOL.......we will never have equality of the sexes as long as men are being demonized.........
Tell me, andrew, that your word processor recognizes the word misandry and i will leave you alone to your self loathing position.......but i would bet that not only does your word processor NOT recognize the word "MISANDRY", but that you have been taught since you were a very young boy that men are bad (most of them, not the honorary women that stick up for women-I was one of the biggest honorary women in existence-but you will realize that your honorary woman staus can be taken away at a moment's notice and you can be labeled among the big bad men category in a blink of an eye)......
the one statistic that I like to observe most is a comparison between
domestic violence among heterosexual couples and lesbian couples......this is where the fan meets the excrement........cuz here there is little difference between the violence rates for men and women (and here is a case where there is no man to blame).........
interestingly, there is little or no difference between the domestic violence rates for lesbian couples and heterosexual couples in which the man is blamed for all the violence......so how now......without a man in the lesbain couple to blame for the violence, how can we blame a man for that violence??????????????????????!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!??!??!?!?!??!
women's groups thrive on blaming men (and honorary women jump to front of the line to throw stones at the men they have found guilty by the women's groups accusations)..........
Feminists hate it when there is no man to blame.....they hate it......who do we blame for male socialization of violence if women are doing the vast majority of the raising of children????!?!??!?!?!?!??! Who do we blame for the teaching of violence to our boys and men when women are the vast majority of teachers? Tv and videogames.....Who do we blame for the vast majority of violence among boys and men if women do the vast majoirty of the video game buying and tv watching decision making (they are the vast majority of parents who raise kids).......
I am pissed off, andrew (not that you care in the least), because men are being scapegoated, men are being villified, men are being made to feel unwelcome, men are being made to feel inferior......and men (I use this term loosely) like you (and like i used to) are quick to take sides with women against men........
I am pissed off cuz i was taught ad infinitium that men are bad and that they cannot be trusted......I had beaten into me that men have done nothin gof value in this society, that we are quick to usurp power and slow to yeild power.......I had been taught to hate my father and i had been taught that my mother was a saint......and now i have been declared an ##### cuz i dare to give my father the time of day (and not continue to villify him as a deadbeat dad) and let him know he is a beatdead dad, and i dare to tell my mother tha not all men are bad and that not all men are to be locked away in jail (or threatened with being thrown in jail at every turn).......
we have been taught that violence against women is everywhere, so we find it everywhere........but we have been taught that women arent violent, so we dont find women violent anywhere (thus, we maintain the sweet and innocent myth of womenhood-LOL as if)..........
women's groups claim they seek equality, just not with men.......
Quote:
The excessive number of men and women in prison can be attributed to the stepping up of penalties by legislators etc. who aren't in touch with the research and the facts, but are instead work under atheoretical assumptions, such as rational decision theory. The war on drugs has been a large factor in this.
You seem to pretend that the media doesnt have a role to play in setting an agenda whereby legislators HAVE to act to protect women (since the media hypes up crimes against women regularly)......In LA, if there isnt a horrible crime that has occurred locally for the news media to hype up, they simply find a horrible crime that took place thousands of miles away and hype it up like it happened in our backyards..........fear, fearing fear, fearing fear, fearing fear.....the news media works very hard to get you to be afraid of men so that you will insist on legislation that targets men and exonerates women (which is why the police man anbd police woman can safely say that men get locked up more than women since we have defiend most crimes to be associated with a particular gender because we have been led to believe that only one gender is the one to fear)..........try not to ignore the importance of the media in this war of hype (against men)......
http://rightsofman.fortunecity.com/dvsumary.html
Finding
Overview of Fiebert's Annotated Domestic Violence Bibliography
Number of Studies reporting that Finding
Women are more physically abusive than men. 71
Women and men are equally physically abusive. 24
Men are more physically abusive than women. 3
Women initiated violence more often than men did. 6
Women and men initiated violence equally often 3
Men initiated violence more often than women did. 0
Women suffered more injuries than men did. 4
Women and men suffered equal numbers of injuries. 1
Men suffered more injuries than women did. 3