I know a lot of people who are happy...
Since I'm not going to be intimate with any of them, I don't care what they do in the privacy of their boudoir... and I especially don't think the "gubermint" has any business knowing what anyone does in the privacy of their bedroom. In fact, I could care less if you want to have a secular marriage with your vacuum cleaner or pet python or leave all of your possessions to your cat or have multiple spouses (one is plenty for me, but if you want to go through a divorce with a number of different spouses, good for you
)... even though that's an important individual decision, it's just unimportant to me.
Sooooo... I know lots of people who are happy... and quite a number who aren't.