They supported my notion that matriarchy is as bad as patriarchy and that many of the extremist feminists are indeed not well disguised matriarchs (still waiting to hear from you Dana).
The second blog is the sanitized version, so if you find it offensive, do yoursef a flavor and dont bother reading the first one, cuz it is uber-offensive.
Two people got really offended by my blog against sexist man-hating feminists. Funny thing, they are people who I would have thought would have agreed with me! Perhaps they need to READ MORE CAREFULLY.
I wasn't ranting about all women or even all feminists. I was very specific about the kind of anti-male, superstitious feminists I loathe.
The kind who call me "dirty" because I have sex with men (and yet complain when lesbians are marginalized!), who won't allow transwomen at their events because they have "male energy," who blame "the patriarchy" for every little damn thing that goes wrong in their lives, who think that all heterosexual sex is unequal or coersive, who think that "all men are capable of rape" but assume that women are incapable of such crimes. Women who howl and bitch to desegregate all-men's universities, but rabidly defend their precious all-women's universities because women need "protecting" from men.
In short, those who think that the best way to make the world a perfect place is for women to be in charge and men to be second-class and hated citizens.
These are women who are utterly against real gender equality. Instead, they want to subject men out of revenge.
Ladies who were offended, if you are NOT this kind of "feminist," you have no reason to be upset with my rant! In fact, I suggest you should think hard about whether these ideas are worth defending at all.
For clarification, the reason I posted that blog was in response to some comments from some lesbians in another online forum, bashing me for being bisexual and sleeping with "the enemy" - yes, they said this. "Enemy." These women think men are their ENEMIES. That is seriously ##### up... and so long as they are the loudest feminists, some people will think that gender war and man hating is what feminism is all about.
How about instead of feminism, humanism? How about rights for everyone rather than trying to dismantle the nobility of an entire gender? How about NOT hating people just because they were born male? How about unification instead of separation? How about NOT removing oneself from the company of all members of the "wrong" gender?
There is no such thing as "separate but equal."
Or maybe, the very concept of a world made of only two types of genders - "women" and "men" - can be questioned as well??
I remember well about 15 years ago, talking to my mother on the phone, telling her i didnt like the word feminism, but preferred "humanism".....she began yelling into the phone.....cuz she is and was a matriarch railing and wailing against patriarchy........if patriarchy is bad, then so is matriarchy........so where are all the men who are for matriarchy? stand up and be counted.......
on 2nd thought, rather than including the hyperoffensive version containing more graphic words than I care to post.....let me just give ya the link and you can read it if you so desire........
go to blog entitled
Dear Lesbian Feminists, who spell woman with a Y because they are STUPID