1, 2, 3, straight people aren’t the enemy........
Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 5:54 pm
by Akil Todd Harvey
Hey Bill
play nice, be nice, take your lashes like a nice guy..........being nice is not the answer to these problems, that is how we got here.
if these issues have merit, they will last and flourish, not because I said them in a nice way that offends no one, it will be because they are unbearable to men......
Intolerable.......
I have dealt with feminist claptrap, lies and deception for over thirty years, Bill, and I have had enough........
I have been a supporter of feminism for over thirty years, Bill, and I have just woken up (in the last few years) to the fact that these folks don’t want equality, never did and never will.........
They want woman on top, not side by side.........they want woman to rule, not share power......
They talk about how the feminist movement supports men's issues, but as long as the men don’t have a say in what those issue are......
And i know that my insults give folks a convenient way to avoid the important issues, but that is because they are busy trying to avoid the important issues, I just made it easy for them to do so......if feminists wanted to raise the issues of fairness with men that I have been raising they could have done so long ago, but they don’t want to, that is why they will raise every issue to discuss but the ones we want to discuss.......
Your not being nice, you aren’t playing fair.......forget that noise.......
I don’t wage war in the manner that the enemy has decided I should…..Imagine if the American revolution was fought as the British said we should…..we would still be speaking English…..lol
......That would be somewhat foolish, wouldn’t it?????????
And is this war? Damn skinny it is........I am sick and tired and will take no more..........
No more bullshit and no more false accusations......as soon as I hear the false accusations coming, I attack, I attack lest these false accusation be taken seriously.........
Let these false accusation fester and everyone thinks men are bad and they are the ones who do all the bad things (or in large part, not in equal part).....
If feminists thought that men and women were equal, they would want men and women to be locked in prison in equal numbers, but they aren’t. Feminists are convinced that men are more bad than women and that is why there are more men in prison and the feminist think that is the way it should be.....In fact, the feminists (men and women included) are so convinced of the inequality of men, that they are constantly trying to get more and more men locked up in jail for longer and longer periods of time..........
Mushin, no mind.......that is my attitude.....this is beyond ego, bill, well beyond ego, something must be done and the time to be nice isn’t now, but when the feminazis start to be willing to reason with us men, that will be the day that we can start to be nice again.
I don’t care about being nice at this point cuz I don’t feel safe from the false accusations of women (and men) and the men who are quick to believe lies over truth.......
Every day or every few days I walk to my garage to do an hour or two of furniture making while I recuperate from a workplace injury, this time alone gives me great comfort and freedom.....so every time I go to the garage, I walk past this dog who on most days lungs and barks, barks like you have committed some horrible fictitious crime and need punishment.....most days of the week, I just walk by as quietly as possible, trying NOT to disturb the doggie in his habitat, but every once ins a while, I get tired of it, I get tired of being barked at with such ferocity, knowing how hard most of the time, I work to make sure that I bother no one.....so every once in a while, on days that I feel like crap (or just feel that I don’t feel like taking crap that day), I lung at the dog, and I bark at him to "shut up", scaring him as he has startled me on so many occasions......what is good for the goose is good for the gander.........so, i am walking along 50 yards later and out pops a woman, saying, "Did you just yell?", to which i say next to nothing, (I don’t know her, she has not addressed me with any pleasantries or "excuse me's", to which she repeats in a more threatening manner, "Did you just yell?", "Did you just yell?", to which I respond, "excuse me, did that dog just bark at me?.....she starts to tell me how she heard someone be "Angry" and that she was about to call the cops, to which I respond, "Call the police!", and she says, well, I work with the district attorney's office, you should go away now...." so, i went straight to the police myself and the woman at the counter responds that this other woman is probable a wack secretary.....notice, this woman did not identify her name, her jurisdiction, etc....she thinks the whole world is her jurisdiction....lol.......dogs have right's that people don’t......and that is what she was trying to enforce, the dog's right to bark at people with absolute abandon and people's absolute right not to act in their own self defense........my neighbor’s dog has the right to bark at you and you can do nothing about......hahahahhahahahhahahahhahahah........i may have no rights, but until you lock my arse in jail permanently, I will continue to assert what rights I have left as a man, if there be any.......in the middle of broad freaking daylight.........the big alpha female, i met her again, out there enforcing laws that don’t even exist.....telling men what to do, how to do it, when to do it.......go away doggie...........she ran out to protect some woman, for sure, .....she ran out to protect some guy from marauding on some defenseless female..........
Anybody want to tell me the following::::::::
When did it become illegal to become angry in this country?
Oh yeah, it is only illegal for a men to get angry in this country.....
Women should feel free to get as angry as they want, that is not an illegal activity, but being male and being angry is illegal in your state, right?
Dudes, think i am wrong, next time you get angry, stop being afraid of letting it show and the anger police will come to our rescue.........
The alpha female anger police will come out of the woods whenever they hear an angry male.......They will immediately come out and shame and threaten you, they will pretend that merely being angry (as a male) is illegal or immoral........
The alpha female (and males) has been so taught that male anger always leads directly to BAD things that as soon as they see any form of anger, they immediately pounce on it, trying to stomp it out for the illegal activity that it is.......lol
I had a problem with some family members, my bad, I decided to do some business service work for family....well, i felt taken advantage of after years and no one in my family was even willing to discuss my feelings of having been taken advantage of by my sisters husband......i asked my father to intercede on my behalf (to encourage some sort of discussion), but since my mother had deliberately alienated my father for over a decade, he had little chance to act.....my mother, similarly, refused to lift a finger to help resolve the family conflict, so i decided after waiting six months (note how much of a hurry i was in, I waited six months for my parents to act).......since no one was gonna try to help and being nice didn’t work, i decided it was time to NOT be nice.....i called my bro in law and told him where to go (and he has disowned me), and i would get all upset about, except for the fact that in the last five years, those folks never call me anyway.....if i want to hear their voices, i call them, waiting for any of them to call me is a waste of time (what did you do? There was nothing that I had done previously that justified not calling their own brother......whatever, dudettes, that is on you......so, after i called my bro in law and told em where to go, i called my mother to let her know that i took care of the situation myself (after she refused to lift a finger to help resolve a family dispute-some matriarch-yeah right).....so i call ma and i leave a message saying, "i came to you for help and you refused to lift a finger, now i am gonna do it my way, cuz I am a man, not a woman........next day, I get these messages from mom about threats to hurt myself or others..........and i am like, ok, ma, go with the false accusations....i deliberately used language that would inflate her expectation of danger, but that had no one in their right mind would ever consider a threat……the police never showed up at my door and I was never prosecuted….the threats were only threats in her own mind…..
i call ma back the next day and i tell her to get over herself........get over her false accusations cuz i refuse to cower before women any more just to make them feel safe.
you can use my issues against me if you like, good luck, my family has done the same, many times.....that is why i dont care, anymore, cuz they use my caring against me..........i dare to confront my issues and i am supposed to feel bad about it....most folks don’t have the courage that God gave a mouse to discuss their real issues on these forums and I am supposed to feel bad cuz i am in touch with my issues????? lol.......
Like Janis Joplin said, freedom is nothing left to lose.
Men have been targeted for far too long and I for one am sick and tired of it…..I don’t feel safe and I haven’t felt safe from feminists for quite a long time…….if they don’t feel safe, I am at the point of not giving a #####……I spent more than a decade learning how to do karate so I could not only protect women, but also so I could teach women how to protect themselves……let me tell ya boys, women would much rather have men protect them than to have to learn how to protect themselves (same goes with most men)…….
Bill, I have nothing left to lose.......my mother spent most of my childhood telling me how horrible my father was (ask my father today about my mothers foibles and he doesn’t tell me all horrible things that my mother did wrong-although if pushed he will admit individual mistakes on her part, but he doesn’t go out of his way to remember or highlight her faults, but merely acknowledges whatever she says he did wrong is true-thus, no denial)......my mother spent most of my childhood making sure that I wouldn’t get a chance to bond with my grandfather, or if i did, to belittle him........my mother, so eager, to make sure that I didn’t turn out like my father, ensured that i would NOT value my father......
Llet me tell ya about my grandfather.....first off, i know almost nothing and that is not by accident......my grandpa worked some non-descript factory job for most of his life and my mother seemed to hate and despise him.......one day I went to his funeral and i happened to read his obituary.....by the way my mother talked about my grandpa, you would think that his obit would read about how many years he spent behind bars, but instead I read about how he was a pioneer in a new form of retirement living, in which retirees live active lives rather than just rotting away in some nursing home doing next to nothing, valuing themselves not at all, etc......Now, I know that my grandfather was worth knowing and that my mother worked hard to make sure that I never got much of a chance to get to know him……
And then there was the vitriol reserved for my dad (and just about anyone with gonads)..........why was my dad the big boogeyman?????? he did not pay child support.....despite the fact that my mother had remarried......and then divorced and had a live in boyfriend (actually she moved into his house with the kids-thus this new guy was providing support)....my ma didn’t marry her next two boyfriends the way she did my father and stepfather, that would have supported the patriarchal system (and lost her right to claim that my dad was a beat dead dad if she admitted that new men were supporting her and her family)......the fourth full time man in my ma's life bought her a house that she got to keep, the 2nd husband gave her a volvo, her 3rd boyfriend gave her shelter, support, etc.......my ma is getting remarried and divorced like its changing your clothes......my dad, having quit the job that supported the family the entire time my parents were together, quit his job as soon as he could to become a practitioner of eastern medicine, has never amounted to much of anything financially, although he has helped many many people to find healthier and happier lives..........my mother, on the other hand, is the quintessential alpha female, she has let no one get in her way.....she gotten everything she wanted out of life......and guess what, she is not happy (by her own admission)........my ma is a full professor at the university of Michigan in Anna arbor (She is working in the ivory tower, that which she so despised for so long) and she has been depressed for the last ten years. the first five years of depression I chock up to menopause.....and the rest is hers........be careful of what you wish for baby, you just might get it....my mother has never let any man or women get in her way of her goals and now that she has reached them, we are all supposed to feel bad that she is unhappy??????? lol....life is funny that way.....that was one of my favorite sayings in youth, be careful of what you wish for...........YOU MIGHT GET IT!
so, yeah, I have issues and i may even wear them on my sleeve, but that is mostly cuz i am trying to get over them, not have them hide in my subconscious for the rest of my life.......Oh, I know that most of you don’t want to hear my observations, but then again, you can go to whatever thread you like......if there is any such thing as freedom of speech, then why are so many people (me included) saying "watch what you say"........
war aint pretty......but let me tell you something i did not start it.........i have been attacked by women verbally and otherwise more times than I can count.........
I used to just cower (as taught diligently by mom) whenever I was accused falsely of anything and i now I rise up and shout down any and all false accusers.......men, be warned, false, misleading, and blatantly false sexual and abuse accusations abound in this society......if you want to be safe, learn how to spot them and shoot down the false accusations long before anybody begins to believe it..........
More than decade ago, I went to visit my sis.....she had two daughters....I was studying karate (my bro in law-kungfu).....so i was doing a little karate in their back yard in the hopes that I would interest the young girl in an art form that would help protect her throughout life......but, like most women, she seemed more than a little content to just let the men do the job........later I was sitting on the couch and the little girl is playing games that were not welcome at the time, my hands were busy, so I used my feet to defend my space (trust me, boys, you don’t want little girls too close to you, defend your space from false accusations), so the little girl keeps invading my space and i try to keep her out of my space with my foot......if i had kicked this little girl, my niece, for real, she might never get up, but that distinction never got understood, she runs to mommy, yelling, He kicked me".....to which I say crap, that is crap.....false accusation, if i wanted to kick her, she wouldn’t get up so quickly to make these false allegations...........
Dogs and kids have more rights than men in society and that is what bothers me........
While some of you think i am just acting on negatively on my issues. i tell you, you don’t know the half of it.....an in you don’t know half as much as i hold back and you don’t know half the crap that I have put up with......and just cuz i have been a nice guy up will now, does not mean that I will conveniently continue to be some nice guy in the future......"I am mad as hell and I am not gonna take it anymore" ……You can feel free (as the native Americans say) to walk in my shoes for a mile before you judge me and until you have done so, I wont let you judge me……..
we guys have been nice to women for far too long to prove that we are not the big bad meanies that the feminaizs claim we are......people like ian will come out to shame me (oh, ian the taliban are so baaaaaaaad, and i don’t rule them, i don’t justify their behavior nor do i agree with it, but i refuse to be cowered into silence because of their actions that I am not responsible for and have never ever supported)....things is ian, there is an underlying shame assumption that your statement has contained in it.......which is that Islam is the most sexist religion...some feminist I met more than a decade ago at UMass hit me with that false assumption years ago........Forget the fact that Islam allowed women to divorce more than a thousand years before Christianity or Judaism did.........don’t worry Ian, i am not so ignorant that you can just make me cower with one massive false allegation against my professed religion.......I am aware of most of the faults of those who profess my religion, but the religion, like all religions, is itself far more egalitarian than people give it credit......i know it is popular to bash religion today ian, so feel free.....and keep trying to shame me into silence if you can, but don’t be surprised is i throw a little back your way......and take the time to address the issue at hand from time to time if you dare.......i know you had a little fun yourself for a while where you sent these gay porn pictures to folks whose opinions you didn’t like.....in your face was ok then right ian???????? Gay people can say that they are gay beyond their control (don’t try to change me, accept me as I am , right?), but there is no concomitant willingness to accept anyone who does not agree with your lifestyle? any straight person who has a natural aversion to homosexuality that is biologically driven (cannot be ignored just like your sex drive) is a homophobe, utterly fearful of your lifestyle, which most gay men will claim is beyond their control, but the same right is not conferred on straight people..........I have known and lived with gay people for nearly thirty years and I find them not nearly as accepting of straight people as they want straight people to be accepting of them......we all have issues and some of us deal with them better than others.....you want me to deal with mine and i want you to deal with yours........come on ian, sing along
1, 2, 3, straight people aren’t the enemy........