Women are not morally superior to men. Women are not always kind, caring, and sharing. Sometimes, they’re mean, conniving and manipulating. Psychological stereotyping has done a profound disservice to men by casting women as nurturing and men as aggressive. Female business barracudas and politicians are ruthless beyond belief to most men’s way of thinking. My kind, caring, sharing side is not my female side; it’s my kind, caring, sharing side! Sadly, due to our societal blindness to the fact that women are not morally superior to men, women get away with perpetrating far more than their fair share of tragedies and outrages. If a man hits a woman, we want to toss the bastard in jail. If a woman hits a man, we want to know what he said to piss her off. Women think “Fidelity” is city in Pennsylvania…Women know what other women are like. It’s us dopes who deny the moral sliminess of women.
Rich Zubaty, What men Know That Women Don’t, P. 500
95% of abuse allegations tendered during divorce are false.
To protect 5% of the children, we are destroying the most sacred bond there is between 95% of so-accused divorcing fathers and their kids.
The most frequent child batterers are women.
The most frequent victims are their two-year-old sons
The most unreported crime is not wife beating but husband beating.
Men have no rights in abortion. They cannot even adopt their own child should the wife/girlfriend opt to give it up for adoption.
The Supreme Court has ruled that sex discrimination law was enacted to protect women only.
ibid, P 512
I was taking universitry level women's studies classes as far back as 1984 and had indoctrination in feminism dating back to the late 1960's. I have read somwhere between five and ten books on men's issues as they relate to things like misogyny (which no one here would dispute its existence) and misandry (which some people are beginning to see is kept well hidden, but exists nonetheless, despite some people's desperate efforts to keep ptretending it doesn't exist).......
There are several books on misandry that I have been reading that I do not recommend because they are as full of blame and negativity (Vilar, Esther, The Manipulated male) as that of any feminist ideologue. Then there are others, like mr zubaty's book, that contains a lot of positive stuff and a lot of negativity........I would love to see Rich rewrite his book, as somethign along the lines of ...."What Few men and women know that most men and women do not know. to me, that would be more middle of the road.....but, I also know where rich's pain comes from (from having his son and daughter removed from his life by a careless system that destroys the very families it pretends to protect.......
By far the best book on Misandry is listed below
Spreading Misandry
The Teaching of Contempt for Men in Popular Culture
Paul Nathanson and Katherine K. Young
A probing inquiry into the pervasiveness of negative male stereotypes in popular culture.
Paul Nathanson and Katherine Young argue that
men have routinely been portrayed as evil, inadequate, or as honorary women in popular culture since the 1990s. These stereotypes are profoundly disturbing, the authors argue, for they both reflect and
create hatred and thus further fracture an already fractured society. In Spreading Misandry they show that creating a workable society in the twenty-first century requires us to rethink feminist and other assumptions about men.
The first in an eventual three part series, Spreading Misandry offers an impressive array of evidence from everyday life - case studies from
movies, television programs, novels, comic strips, and even greeting cards - to identify a phenomenon that is just now being recognized as a serious cultural problem. Discussing
misandry - the sexist counterpart of misogyny - the authors make clear that this form of hatred must not be confused with reverse sexism or anger and should neither be trivialized nor excused. They break new ground by discussing misandry in moral terms rather than purely psychological or sociological ones and refer critically not only to feminism but to political ideologies on both the left and the right. They also illuminate the larger context of this problem, showing that it reflects the enduring conflict between the Enlightenment and romanticism, inherent flaws in postmodernism, and the
dualistic ("us" versus "them") mentality that has influenced Western thought since ancient times.
A groundbreaking study, Spreading Misandry raises serious questions about justice and identity in an increasingly polarized society. It is important for anyone in interested in ethics, gender, or popular culture, or just concerned about the society we are creating.
"Spreading Misandry turns the tables on the gender wars. It's not men ganging up on women. It is just the reverse--
a long and gradual cultural attack on men. This book is a brilliant and perceptive overstatement, but one that is needed to discover the truth that will heal the rift between the sexes." Don Browning, University of Chicago and co-author of From Culture Wars to Common Ground