Part of the reason that men seem so much less loving is that men's behavior is measured with a feminine ruler (Francesca M. Cancian)
Actually, among the issues of our schools, and in most of our institutions, imo, is that boys (and men's) behavior is measured according to a woman's behavioral norms..........and to the extent that women's and men's behavior patterns overlap, the gender normatization toward the female measure may be a handicap for some women as well, thus a broader problem than merely men or boys, versus women and girls, toward women and men, boys and girls.........
thus, we may be quick to judge male behavior (and some women) as being wrong and unacceptable.
how do we find a middle ground more acceptable to both genders?
