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Disagree with this one. All of us have a survival instinct and,I think, are capable of violence in the right circumstances. Mother's defending their young, men defending family, soldier's defending buddies and so on. Well thought out training can bring this out if the teacher is teaching the mindset as well as techniques. I know Ray's view that you can train and get a lot from solo workouts but a partner, especially one who could hurt you is a great tool for developing this.Learning to harness fear and use it as a force in your favor is a part of any sport where aggressive contact and the risk of injury are possible.
Jo
I think you misunderstand what I said. I have crossed trained in many arts, and in some of them you absolutely need a partner, my last MA was wing Chun and I would say 90% of it is partner work. My backgrond in throwing arts also needs partner work, in fact you can't learn it without a partner.
My comments about being Quick where not directed at anybody on this forum. I was remembering back to my Jiu jitsu days, and reflecting on some of the people that I have known. Back then people seemed to think that somehow after years of training if they got in a fight they would throw somebody with a lightning fast throw

.now the reason that that is funny is because I never saw any of them do a lightning fast throw. They practised slow throws
.and as they say in computer speak GIGO.Garbage in, Garbage out. What you train is what will come out....................I think Van told a story about officer Firearms training ,were they were told when practising disarms to never give the gun back to your partner, because that is what you will do in a real street confrontation. simply because you have trained to do just that
One of my teachers didn't like bowing, because you get so used to doing it that when you go into a Cimema etc there is that temptation to bow, I kid you not

..........I've also known people, back in the day who I trained with when I was in my 20's and they would be my age back then, and they were all stories about how tough they were. I had a friend whose Dad was in construction, he was a big man and in his youth and younger years could do all sorts of strong man feats, after 20 years of heavy drinking,smoking and overeating he would still look at people in a menacing way as though he was the tough guy that he once was......Now they are things to be very aware of. I know other people who are not like that at all, they are old ,some in poor health, but they are quiet respectfull men, who could walk their talk and still can.my good friend Bob ( A uechi man) had a triple bypass and he is still someone not to pick a fight with, or anothetr guy I know Keith who used to be a body builder and at 67 still rides powerfull motorcycles.
But you need to train what you want to bring out, remember you are training for a confrontation that may last two minutes.now think of that..you see people in karate clubs standing in lines punching the air...for what? better to hit something hard, as fast as you can for 2 minutes.that in itself is not an easy feat..................Boxings good, I love it but it's not fighting
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