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Quoting Panther:
I've already given an example ( and many more are self-evident if one takes the time to think it through ) that shows that merely following primordial instincts would reduce man to a morality which could essentially be summed up as "what is good for me is good, what is bad for me is bad" with no other constraints.
I don't think your example neccesarily shows that, and though I can think of self-evident examples that would seem to indicate immorality given instincts, I can also think of self-evident reasons that those examples don't show that instinct innevitabely leads to a reduction in morality. Empathy, for example, is an instinct that leads to most moral feelings, and something like cheating in schoolwork has more to do with people's perception of the situation and needing to be taught why it's wrong rather than that it's wrong.
Assume there is no God...
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Therefore, we will assume that men are not exclusively good or evil. We will also assume that some men are "more good" than others.
All right, as a simplification I can accept this.
Given these assumptions, it stands to reason that over the course of history, the "good" practices of man will have gradually ( through thousands of years of trial and error ) been codified into codes of behavior. These codes would have been handed down formally and informally from generation to generation because they work. There may be some variations to these codes in different regions of the world, but they also include certain fundamental core codes of conduct.
I agree with this.
I propose that we call such time-honored codes of behavior "religion".

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As I've already acknowledged, to respect and adhere to religion as described above is an act of faith. Faith that the best traits and knowledge of our ancestors has been handed down to us to use for our own good, and for the good of all Mankind.
If that's qualifies something as a religion, then science is a religion. There's a point of view from which science is a religion, but this really isn't how the word is generally used. However, I can agree that what you've described could be a mechanism by which morality is conveyed to people, and whether it's called religion or not isn't really important to me.
Now... If we choose to reject this " religion ", and "decide for ourselves" what is moral, we (at a minimum) elevate ourselves to a level of moral wisdom surpassing the best that Mankind has ever produced ! If enough people do this... well, we've already gone there.
Here is where I think the absence of God is significant. The difference is that the wisdom of man, even the best wisdom of the ages is fallable, whereas the wisdom of God is not.

Since you're saying "the best Mankind has produced" you're neccesarily implying that there have been revisions and modifications along the way. Moral progress could not happen without voices of dissent. Unless you're going to say that at some arbitrary point in the past that morality was perfected, then there's room for improvement. With an infallable origin of morality, such as God, you simply accept without questioning, because it couldn't possibly be wrong. That would be fine if God exists, of course, but if he doesn't, then you're going to end up repeating the same moral errors indefinitely because you can't ammend them without giving up God. And since I personally don't believe in God, I can't perceive any moral code as being infallable.
if, as you say, people are both good and evil inherently, how can one expect them to consistently act in what we would all generally agreee to be a morally "good" fashion without ever having had those moral values instilled (trained... through " religion ", whether divine or not) into them from prior generations?
Well, here's one possibility, there are others:

1. People have an interest in their children and descendents that often supercedes their own self-interest.

2. People are social animals because it's effective. They cooperate at times rather than exclusively competing because it benefits them to do so.

Therefore, people will cooperate to create a society they think it will benefit their children. In most respects, this is a moral rather an an immoral society. Furthermore, conceit helps because everyone tends to believe that in an even race they and their children will win. People develop scruples against cheating, because they don't want their children to be cheated against. And so on for other examples of moral behavior.
You have answered your own query as to what "subjective morality" is... In doing so, IMNSHO, you inadvertently contradict yourself. You first wrote (quoted above exactly) that man is inherently both good and evil. Then, in saying that my definition of "subjective morality" isn't consistent with your use or understanding of the term, you wrote: " ...the point is more that man inherently possesses a multitude of traits, which are neither inherently good nor evil in and of themselves ... but become so depending on how they manifest themselves in behavior. "
The only issue here is whether it's "both" or "neither." Is fire good or bad? Is rain good or bad? You could say both or you could say neither, since they can result in things we like or things we don't like, but don't have any tendency either way.

Thus what I was saying is that human beings have traits (analogous to fire or rain) that cause good or evil behavior. I chose to use the word both for humans and neither for traits the same way I would say that a forest fire is both good and bad (environmentally speaking), but fire itself is neither.

I'm not heavily comitted to use of either "both" or "neither" for the good and evilness of humans or human traits so if you're more comfortable with one choice then I'm happy to go with that.
Therefore, "subjective morality" is a system of moral conduct modified or affected by ones own personal views or experiences and thuse arising out of one's own personal perception without external influences. Bluntly, it is the belief that one's own code of moral conduct is followed regardless of what others think of as "good moral conduct"..
The story of Jesus is the story of someone who followed his own code of moral conduct regardless of what others though of as "good moral conduct." More importantly, everyone's system of moral conduct is affected by their own views. Even religious leaders argue and disagree on how to interpret the Bible. Yes, they agree on the big stuff, but the fact that there are any dissagreements shows that there is an extent, however small to which their morality is subjective. From there it's just a matter of degree that seperates them from the modern Liberals.
In effect, "subjective morality" is the belief that there is no inherent good or evil, but rather good and evil are defined depending on how they manifest themselves in behaviour!
I'm not sure how this follows. What could good or evil be inherent to if not to behavior? Are you talking about them in terms of abstract forces in the universe? I was using them as descriptive terms for behaviors (such as killing) that are good or evil depending only on the context.

If a person had never come into contact with the moral codes found in the Bible, but had devised an identical set of precepts from their own perceptions, that would still be subjective morality because it had arisen out of their own perception, yes? But it doesn't seem like you're saying that the moral code found in the bible would be a subjective form of morality.

You made a point about martial artists being from a lineage, and my take on the matter as it relates to morality is that just like times change and it's okay to question whether what the masters of old taught is still the best and definitive truth, it's reasonable to question the morality that is passed along to us. The stakes are higher with morality but it's a similar issue when you talk about it in terms of to what degree you simply accept what you're told. Then again, unlike martial arts, it's not okay for morality to be custom-fit to each person. But in my mind it's still an open question what is the best moral life.

I'll go start a thread about the political side in your forum.
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Post by KerryM »

Is it possible to be Spirtual and not be Religious? The original question.


yep-

I am a spiritual person, not participating within any organized religion, baseing this choice to be so from my own personal experiences and knowledge gained through study.

smiling- no cop-out here- merely practicing what I preach.

"When it comes to who's right and who's wrong? Everyone is both. This is where I was talking about "absolutes"- when you refer to things- it should really be in the context of "I'm thinking- I believe"- so that it leaves the door open for discussion. "

This quote was referring to what different religions teach. Hence the subject I was talking about- not judgeing what other people believe against what I personally believe is the trtuth because everyone has a right to free choices. Taken out of context I spose it could be viewed as a "cop-out" senerio- but within what I waws talking about- nope. :)


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And "in the meantime", while everyone is waiting for unconditional love's consequences to take effect... how many more victims will be tortured and murdered by the next Ted Bundy or Jeffrey Dahmer? There is right and wrong. It is up to God to forgive, but whether you wish to espouse the Bible (old or new testament), Koran, {insert name of favorite true religion here}, if you've read and studied those religions , you know that there are many tales of God (while being forgiving in the afterlife) punishing those who commit evil deeds which violate the code of moral values which have been handed down from generation to generation. And regardless of the admonishments of "vengence is mine saith the Lord", Men have instituted laws and systems of justice to enforce those moral codes and punish the breach of those moral codes.
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not really sure what you're talking about with this response- I never intended to cause any statement to be interpreted as meaning- "with un-conditional love" you can do whatever you want whenever you want cause nothing will happen to you till you die"-

In the context of what I was talking about- the comments you were quoting:

Why do I say this? Respect of free will and "un-conditional" love. In it's most basic meaning- no- conditions. If people have an evil heart and wish to harm people animals, etc, than there will be consequences to pay because of un-conditional love.

I was explaining my reasoning for not judging peoples belief systems and how they developed them- wasn't talking about people not paying the consequences for breaking the law. "Loving someone" doesn't negate consequences- rather because we are to love people there are consequences for "not" doing so- as in the case of someone going around hurting things/people- both here in the present and after you die.

This is true also on an even deeper level- to hurt others you are also hurting yourself. Other than being stupid- that also is the opposite of "loving".

I was also talking to you with regards to quoting and understanding the teachings of Jesus, because that is your frame of refferance. I am speaking "your language"- so to speak.

these comments:

Not in any true sense of the word... You can claim "spirituality" without being religious, but you are not "spiritual" in a vaccum. For example, you've invoked the desire to emulate the teachings of Jesus, at least as far as "unconditional love", in your spirituality. That is a lesson taught of religion . Therefore, your "spirituality" and morality, by definition, are based in religion . I would hazard a guess that you also harbor a set morality with a full code of moral values that also influences your personal conduct, actions and beliefs... and, from what you've written, I would guess that those moral values can be (at the very least) traced to a Judeo-Christian up-bringing. (Though a similar set of moral values could be had from a number of true religions.) Hmmmm... I bet James Randi, a self-professed, non-spiritual atheist and great debunker, would say I was simply using preacquired and deduced information in my "guesses"... he'd be correct.
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stepping back and reading this paragraph- it suddenly seemed as though you were making "personal judgements" regarding where and when my own views come from. My question- where's the intent here? What are you trying to get me to see with these comments?

humm- guess I'll have to re-read a few times to make sure I understand the point there. But if there was a question of my background in there and if you are wondering how I came to think the way I do- as I said before- personal study and experience. Was that the question?

Anyway like I've said before- yep- you can be spiritual without participating within a particular religion, as has been my experience so far. :)

smiling-
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I used the assumption of no God to make a point... It is obvious that the "subjective mindset" goes across many boundaries and that my assumptions, given in an attempt to break things down to a simpler level, weren't well recieved. That's fine... when I have time and the inclination, I'll answer the political side on the other forum...

I never said that you had to participate in an organized religion to be spiritual. In fact, I never said that you had to participate in an organized religion to be religious. That wasn't my point. My point was that morality and a good code of moral conduct doesn't come from "spirituality". And I wanted to point out the "spirituality" snake oil that many in the new age movement are selling. They sell it with a new name of "spirituality", but in truth they are peddling a new age "religion". There are plenty of documented examples of this, so I won't get into that.

Fundamentally, the difference between the two that I was trying to point out is that "being spiritual" relies on the ablity to pick and chose one's moral values based on your own subjective internal rules, while "being religious" relies on the external rules for those moral values regardless of whether those rules are convenient or desirable. Going back to previous examples, the internal "subjective" moral values have stated that there is nothing wrong with cheating to get ahead (as has been documented in numerous interviews with students in the last few decades), while the external "non-subjective" moral values impose upon those who might find it convenient or desirable for their own sake to cheat the value that cheating is wrong. So, my point is that being "spiritual" can be internalized, but not successfully without some external rules imposed on the person from someplace... and that the imposition of external rules causes the person to be "religious" not simply "spiritual". Once one has grown enough to understand a set of rules or code, then one can begin to see the grey areas where those rules can be bent or broken. It is true in the martial arts and it is true especially for children. In the martial arts, one must reach a certain level of understanding and competency in order to understand how things can be modified and rules can be bent for various reasons. For a child growing up, a parent must enforce a set of rules. Otherwise the child will make decisions that are based on that child's own subjective beliefs and values. We have seen the results of this for decades in the public schools... Children shouldn't be taught that there are grey areas until they understand the rules of good and bad moral conduct. It is only after growing up with hard and fast rules that the child comes into (young) adulthood and gains the ability to make those "grey area" decisions. But those decisions can not be made without first having the fundamental core values instilled.

OK... I'll leave you to your beliefs and quit trying to explain how external values are more important for a person's morality than internal subjective values.
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It is only after growing up with hard and fast rules that the child comes into (young) adulthood and gains the ability to make those "grey area" decisions. But those decisions can not be made without first having the fundamental core values instilled.
I fully agree with this. I never meant to say that children should just be left to their own devices because instinct will turn them into perfect moral beings.
I'll leave you to your beliefs and quit trying to explain how external values are more important for a person's morality than internal subjective
values.
Okay, well thank you for taking the time you've already spent. I found it interesting.
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Post by KerryM »

:) Hey Panther- I can see what you are saying. Your last post made it more clear and I see what you are saying better now- though I wasn't "riled" or anything :) Takes more than that to get me going. Please do continue to respond! I enjoy "thinking" LOL.

I love a good debate! Long as it stays friendly- :)

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I'm glad I could clarify to some degree...
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Prove it!

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Hi,

this is a good thread.

What belief systems do people on here follow?

Why do you believe what you believe?

Do you disbelieve other religions or is your one the one?

Does anyone here believe in a living deity? What convinced you of this?

How can you prove this to someone who is a non believer?


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regkray wrote:Hi,

this is a good thread.

What belief systems do people on here follow?

Why do you believe what you believe?

Do you disbelieve other religions or is your one the one?

Does anyone here believe in a living deity? What convinced you of this?

How can you prove this to someone who is a non believer?


RK
What belief systems do people on here follow?
Belief systems??? hmmm... what does that mean exactly?

Why do you believe what you believe?
Because I was brought up in a specific 'church'. (Seventh Day Adventisim) It wasn't by choice but by what my parents believed in. I also believe at one point and time you should question it in order to find yourself and the completeness of that belief or religion. If you don't question your belief/faith, then you're just taking someone else's word for it (Parents). Now if you question it and find everything 'right' with why you go to that specific church or believe that specific 'thing' then you have grown to be a better person with even stronger faith.


Do you disbelieve other religions or is your one the one?
Growing up I thought my religion was the only true religion. How can anyone believe anything else? But as you mature, you understand just why people NEED to believe in things. I still see some 'jaded' thinking out there about religion. Its pretty sad (to me) how people fall for such beliefs. It almost contradicts what they take as truths (the Bible). I won't get specific... and if you bring it up to someone like this, there's always their religious crutch or some twisted truths about what their bible says. They take a different 'spin' and it works for them.

I guess the bottom line is... if it works for you then you're on the right track.


Does anyone here believe in a living deity? What convinced you of this?
I believe in God. But I have questioned His existance. I sometimes fall away from this belief then find myself in a situation or thought process where I question... how can there NOT be a God! Its a dilemna. Its weird. And unlike most Christians who think you shouldn't question it, I think its healthy. Not just because of the faith, but its healthy to do those things in every aspect in life. Question the truths till you find it yourself.

How can you prove this to someone who is a non believer?
You can't. Its about faith. And if someone is a non-believer... how can you convince them to have faith in something they don't believe in?

Don't let religion grab hold of you. Grab hold of it! - same as my quote below...
“Don’t let Martial Arts grab hold of you. Grab a hold of it.” -James Ibrao
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Post by KerryM »

What belief systems do people on here follow?

My belief system? To some it up, treat others as you would be treated, or, if it harm none, do what you will.

Why do you believe what you believe?


Personal study and experience

[color=#][/color]Do you disbelieve other religions or is your one the one?

I am not "anti" anything unless it is one with harmful intent. The motivation of harmful and intent could be determined by a thousand different things. I respect people whom have made a choice to live and "do" a "certian" "way"- I do not respect judgmental attitudes, or forcing another to believe as one person does- each person's experiences and knowledge will be different. I also believe that each diffrent "denomination" / religion, has a bit of truth- though I do not believe that any "one" is completely right. I believe we are not capable of understanding enough of why what is right- makes it right- there-fore everyone must do the best they can with what they have- the closest I can get to living a life of "un-conditional love" as I can- and am capable of understanding what all that entails.

[color=#][/color]Does anyone here believe in a living deity? What convinced you of this?

Yes I do, reason, personal study and experience

[color=#][/color]How can you prove this to someone who is a non believer?


I wouldn't try- I would explain my own personal experiences and thoughts carefully so as not to try using my words in a manipulative way. I would not try to "convince" another, but rather try to understand their thoughts and reasons- simply to learn.

How bout yourself?

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RegKray.

I have studied quite a few different religions. It is very hard to convince other people about something that is subjective, ultimately I suppose everything is subjective.It amazes me that all the major religions seem to have key points that they all follow ( and this is again being subjective, My viewpoint :lol: )
And there does seem to be a quest or a search involved to find the ultimate truth. And that ultimate truth seems to be ineffable.......I mean what does a banana taste like, describe the colour yellow....simple things can be quite profound :roll:
But then again, what's at the end of the Universe?
My father always tells me a tv interview that he heard between a Bishop of England and a critic.
The critic said " Who made God?"
The Bishop said ( very cleverly :wink: )......I'll grant you an infinity of Gods,

The critic replied " I would rather believe in nothing than infinity" :wink:

But......what is at the end of the Universe? does "nothing" truly exist. And what does a Banana taste like :lol:
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banana's er gross. they taste like having to get out of bed in the morning after only a couple hours of fitful sleep- rolling around your mouth like a coating of slime over a green pond, having to swallow one of the lumps of algee.. LMAO How's THAT for a description?

Somewhere there is "nothing" or else there couldn't be "something" here- as much as we can understand "something" and "nothings" LOL

question-

so we know the speed of light- ok- so what's the speed of dark? :)

a box without hindges, key or a lid, yet golden treasure inside is hid? (literary buffs should know the answer to that one as it isn't mine- LOL Chef- Fedele?) :) BBet Deep Sea knows what the riddle is from! :)

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An Egg 8) ]
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Yes my prescious yes yes!

This thing- devours things- birds, beasts trees flowers, knaws iron, bites steel- grinds hard stone to meal- slays kings ruins towns and beaaatttsss high mounnntains dooowwwwnnnnnnnnn.....

what does it say?

so what's the speed of dark? LOL-

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Hi all

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Hi All,

this is a good topic, IMHO.
I don't have my own pc so read this when poss.
I printed some stuff off last night I will try to answer some points regarding my posts and other points.
I hope i don't offend people but fear I may.:)

MA's are Eastern Asian indiginous fighting Arts not Spiritual vehicles.

Can a Christian Describe the Holy spirit ghost to me, what is it where is it?

This forum has christian Metaphysical assumptions as one would expect
being American, i don't. God does not exist, Jesus is a Myth.

People keep saying Religions need faith that is because there is no proof of god jesus etc. It is Santa claus for Adults. Just like people believing in Aliens or Astrology.

Yoga is a Hindu form of Meditation there are many tenents in Yoga Hinduism.

Christians proslotise(sp), hindus, Buddhists, Jews, Muslims, do not!!!

The bible was not written at the time of the mythical events it depicts.

Valkenar(sp)
As to the omnipresent etc question, I studied this at Uni there is no logical answer to this. If there is and you've read it as you claim What is it.

The idea that a god lets his creation suffer for some unknown reasn is ludicrous. It makes him sound like a mad scientist.


Also Val i never said Morality and spirituality were identical?? But I don't know a religion with out an ethical basis, do you? Also you said the christian Religion is a faith not scientifically proven. Is that what christians think? why have they killed so many people for not agreeing with them then?

Mormons and JW's are sects not religions.


Panther you say 'we are not born with a moral compass', I disagree.
I think like all animals we do have a moral code within our DNA. Animals care fo rhteir young feed then give them a home, hunt in packs look after one another etc. they don't have an external Religion, do they? I think Christians believe we have this moral code written on our hearts?

And Panther you say followers of religious codes at least have a healthy well tuned moral compass or something like that? you don't read the papers then. Never heard of the countless stories of sexual abuse by vicars and priests. Never heard of the horrendous Irish nuns the pope appologised for. Never heard of Swaggart.


How many so called christians study the origin of the church, the council of Nicea, who wrote the 'Biblical texts? When did they write them. Why were these particular books put together to form the bible and not the many others.

How come the scribes of the day in Jerusalem, Bethlehem never mention Jesus?


jorvik, You're getting close with Green Language.

What is Good and Evil. Is the Iraq war Evil or good. Ask Bush then ask Saddam.? Who's right? Why?

how does the mythical character of Jesus born allegedly 2000 years ago make up for our allged Sins. what is this sin i comitted? I demand a trial.:)

If god makes everything in the Universe why does he judge us for the sins he created?

How can you love a god who has created you blind disabled abused because of some ulterior motive, sounds a cruel Evil person to me.


Why do devout Chrisitians suffer whilst Evil people prosper?

The bible is not logical.

Karma means Act, Karma Phala is the fruit of the Act. We callthe whole thing the Law of Karma.

Some one said many scientists believe the body is a housing for consciouness??? Which scientists?



sorry this sounds like a rant I had to catch up. As i said I have no pcc so had to do this at once.



Take Care



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Post by KerryM »

Without causing offense: I quote:

MA's are Eastern Asian indiginous fighting Arts not Spiritual vehicles.

Can a Christian Describe the Holy spirit ghost to me, what is it where is it?

This forum has christian Metaphysical assumptions as one would expect
being American, i don't. God does not exist, Jesus is a Myth.

People keep saying Religions need faith that is because there is no proof of god jesus etc. It is Santa claus for Adults. Just like people believing in Aliens or Astrology.

Yoga is a Hindu form of Meditation there are many tenents in Yoga Hinduism.

Christians proslotise(sp), hindus, Buddhists, Jews, Muslims, do not!!!

The bible was not written at the time of the mythical events it depicts.

You can state your beliefs here without worry- but as I mentioned before in other posts here it should be done with more respect for those who believe other than you yourself do. Your debates are of the kind I disagree with. You ask questions to get people fired up without answering any of your own. I know you said- IMHO- etc. but each statement made should out of respect have- "in my experience" etc to it. For the statements that you make are not neccesarrily someone elses truth. They are only questions supporting the fact that you are on the quest that the rest of us are on as well.

Respect others with your questions and statements- and maybe you will recieve a response- otherwise- do not expect any "debate" or any knowledge I myself have gained- because In My Opinion- I would feel you only waiting to fire more questions in a dis-respectful manner, rather than to consider what I actually was saying. This is the point I have been making and you demonstrated it well.

No- I'm not offended- I just see you as having opinions and experiences different than my own- only your questions are put in such a manner to invoak emotions counter-productive to the art of being open to possible avenues of other knowledge- they are not put in such a way to actually try to learn other answers to consider. So I won't address them. I have learned that doesn't do any good and only causes people to become riled up.

I hope you find what you are looking for- I hope your own opinions/beliefs- "work" for you- for you are the only one living your life- you need to be able to make it work for you.

with kindness-
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